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From someone’s (http://secretsthatsell.tumblr.com/post/97524473/via-farm1-static-flickr-com-im-doing-my-media) media (ethics?) class:
This Benetton ad was offensive to many readers. Yet its message —that race should not matter—certainly is not offensive. Why do you think the ad was so controversial and, eventually, pulled from distribution? Would you have pulled it?

Uh, no, I would not have. And it was controversial because we are living within the confines of antiquated thinking. Average people thinking average old thoughts questioning nothing criticizing everything and keeping things the same.

cracks me up every time i see it
i love him
don’t tell indy
I have been finding so many wonderful pictures on the internet these days. Mostly from tumblr blogs such as pocketmonsterd, lunaticpill, kari-shma, and unicornology. To my delightful surprise many of these pictures are of cupcakes! I love cupcakes. So I’m going to post cool cupcakes from time to time. Just because they make me smile and maybe you will too. I also have lots of pictures of giraffes, old school stuff from my childhood, Paris ( I LOVE Paris!), nature, dogs….. So I’ll be posting pics of stuff I like just because I like it and maybe you will too.
This is the most stunning cupcake photo yet and a good one to start with I think….

This also goes in the “old school stuff from my childhood” category. I was really into Pac-Man and even more into Ms. Pac-Man. And I was pretty good at it too. Especially at one of those sit-down table-top versions. Fun and Yum!
In Munich one morning last week, a little boy named Hans Koegel appeared at the doorway of the Schule in der Blu-menstrasse and nervously entered. Like other children arriving for the first day of school, he clung tightly to his mother, and it was not for several awkward moments that he finally relaxed enough to smile tentatively at his classmates. But even after he did so, his mother and teacher continued to watch him closely.
For several months, parents and teachers all over West Germany have been worried about children like Hans. He is a mulatto, one of some 3,000 who are starting to school for the first time. Almost all are the children of Negro G.I.s, and most are illegitimate. In a nation that still remembers the preachments of Hitler’s Master Race, they were expected to present something of a problem.
Last week, school principals waited worriedly for reports of discrimination or childish cruelty. But as the first days passed, there was only silence. Not one child was singled out for teasing because of his color; not one teacher refused to work in mixed classes; not one Nordic mother took her own child out of school in protest.
As for little Hans, he had become something of a tease himself. His victim: a young towhead by the name of Tűrauf, which Hans thinks is howlingly funny. Tűrauf means “Open the door.”

the golden girls. rose is my favorite. i’m watching right now. guilty pleasures 🙂




be back soon with something more substantial…
here’s a black chanel handbag…


