in an attempt to exorcise my grief, so this blog doesn’t become an ode to sorrow or a memorial for my Indy, i’m gonna put into this one post the things i need to know right now.  so, if you’re having a hard time too…  if it doesn’t feel like christmas… if you’ve lost something or someone dear to you…  if that’s ripped a hole in your universe… maybe one of these things will resonate with you too.  if not, please come back tomorrow and hopefully it’ll be biracial business as usual over here.